Personal Safety
Personal safety on the Internet is an issue that requires discussion in your home and applies to all Internet users. Many individuals have become the victims of identity theft or had their child exposed to potential child molesters because of habits used while online. These problems arise due to small mistakes that one overlooks and the good news is if a few safety tips are used and done regularly you can dramatically increase your personal safety.
First, never EVER share your personal information online.
If you enter your name in a search engine and your details
appear in the results, be very careful. You can have Internet accounts for professional reasons, but do not give out your address on them-simply provide a
link for anyone interested to communicate with you to a generic email address. In case you have entered details online, delete the information or close the
account before anyone takes advantage of this. Teach your child this principle BEFORE they regularly use the Internet. Take the time to explain that the safe
websites, companies and other people you may be interacting with online will never ask for such information so they never feel they must answer. This is not
only a safe practice for children, it is a good computer safety tip for the whole family.
Be aware that online communication is never private.
Internet service providers and search engines always monitor the activity
from your computer through your IP (Internet Provider) address. Anyone with enough Internet intelligence can intercept and find your information from your computer
and use it against you. It is important to understand how this works.
Never accept contact, gifts or meetings with strangers online.
It is easy for someone who has retrieved your email address online to
contact you, call you by name and befriend you and for a child it may appear that everything is OK since 'they know me'. Be wary of such individuals because they could
be scam artists or other people attempting to gain your confidence. Do not be fooled by this and decline any invitations to chat or to meet up with you-simply delete the
request and for sure do not respond.
Involve your children in Internet safety measures.
If your children are also Internet users, teach them about security when using social
networking sites such as MySpace, Facebook and others. Before your child signs up for an account and accepts friends
in their account talk and teach them how to choose which friends they should add to their network. Do not allow them to give out their full names, address and school
details on their profiles because this is how many predators find their victims. Inform your child on how to use the Internet wisely for their own personal safety.
Know that you have the authority of closing your child's online accounts.
You do not have to wait until they have been threatened by a child
molester or been affected by cyber bullying. As a parent, you can contact the administrators of the networking websites
and request that the account be closed. Some websites also provide a link for parents to delete their child's account. If your child is at risk, do whatever you can to protect
them from this potential risk.
Block all websites that contain pornographic material.
Some parents think that it is enough for them to give a warning against pornographic
websites to their children. You should understand that sometimes all it takes is misspelling a search keyword and all the wrong results show up, raising your child's curiosity
and exposure to misinformation. Contact your Internet service provider and block out all websites with explicit content from opening from your home computers.
Keep track of credit card transactions and telephone bills.
If any suspicious transaction has been made by your child, such as purchasing items
without your permission or signing up for suspicious services online, you will be in a good position to trace the receiver of the money and report to the authorities along with the
appropriate discipline you feel is necessary to prevent this from happening again. Any suspicious phone calls will also be recorded on your phone bill and you can conduct a phone
search to trace the source of the call. Keeping records is an essential part of personal safety. Be informed about software such as Skype that can allow you to make phone calls online,
including long distance calls without this information appearing on your land line phone bill. It is wise to have your computer settings on all home computers set to a default so that only
an administrator can add software for use.
Never send photographs of yourself online.
These give any predator an upper hand to identify you or your child from a distance. Even via email, pictures
can be spread around the Internet within minutes and who knows the kind of person that will land their hands on them.
These are a few of the steps you can take to ensure that your family is protected from online predators and those who are interested in gaining your personal identity.
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